Here's What
Others Have To Say
About Marriage Encounter!
Rose & Joseph Muhoi -
Nairobi,Kenya - Added 03/13/07
We attended our original weekend in 1997 after a
lot of persuasion from a close family. We only gave in to the couple's
demand so as to please them but by Saturday afternoon we knew better.
We were particularly so moved by the lesson on death that we cried
together on each other's arms realizing the so many secrets that
we had kept from each other for more than ten years of our marriage.
We are this year celebrating ten years of encountered marriage and
when we look back we wonder whether without it we would have come
this far. We have maintained a close knit group of the people that
we attended together and meet once a month to pray together. Long
live WWME.
Dan
& Vikki Schultz - Antrim, NH - Added 02/16/07
Every married couple, young or old needs this marriage
encounter. It was amazing!
John & Tammy Morris - Atlanta,
GA - Added 10/27/06
We decided to take the encounter weekend not really
knowing what to expect. When we got there we were pleasently surprised.
We had a good marriage, but there we just things that we were not
sharing. We did not realize how much we were really missing out
on each other. Since our weekend, we have been able to reconnect
again. We can now communicate in ways were never knew we could and
continue to learn more about each other everyday. The weekend was
so worth it. We would recommend that any other couple that wish
to have the kind of intimacy that we found attend a Worldwide Marriage
Encounter weekend.
Dan & Shannon Jenkins
- Norwich, CT - Added 10/16/06
AMAZING! We have been together for ten years, married
for six. We have two beautiful, healthy children. We have always
been very much in love, but we were getting in the very bad habit
of putting each other on the back burner. With tending to the kids,
school, work, life we sort of took each other for granted. We knew
that we needed to spend time alone focused on just the two of us...no
interruptions.
Friends of ours had been encountered 5 years prior
and I was always interested in attending a weekend when the kids
got a little older. Well, the time had come for us to have our weekend,
and it was such a blessing. My husband was reluctant at first. He
felt that our love was strong and was nervous that he would have
to share his feelings with a group. I assured him that from what
I was told the marriage encounter was very private and really about"us"
communicating with each other, not a group.
The first night we sat towards the back of the room.
I asked my husband to please sit in the front so we could really
listen to the presenting couples and priest. The first part of our
weekend he said, "no, I don't want to sit too close."
Well, by the middle of Saturday, before I even would enter the room
Dan would be sitting in front waiting for me. By Sunday we were
so emotionally and spiritually fulfilled that we honestly could
not imagine the weekend getting any better.
Our marriage encounter weekend was the most uplifting,
enlightening experience of our lives next to our wedding day and
the birth of our children. We extend our sincere thanks and blessings
to the presenting couples and priest on our weekend. Their sharing
and guidance gave us the gift of a lifetime. It amazes us that what
we learned was so simple, and we accomplished so much in such a
short time. We plan on continuing our journey with dialog and attending
circle meetings. We realize now more than ever what a precious gift
we are to each other. Thank you WWME!
Terry & Cara Curl - Brandon,
SD - Added 9/19/06
Our weekend was more than we could have asked for!
We both left feeling like we had been given a second chance at life
together. If we had only known we had the tools with us the whole
time! WWME is the best thing that has happened to us next to the
day we got married! We made new friends that we will keep in touch
with that are on the same path we are and are striving for the same
goal. This is very refreshing! Thank you WWME!
Tim & Colleen Easton
- Medina, OH - Added 8/9/06
We have been married 6 years and attended our Marriage
Encounter 2 weeks ago. It was such a blessing! We went with the
hopes of walking away a more connected couple. The weekend was so
much more than we ever expected it to be! It is so amazing to us
that through the simple things they taught us we can make a daily
connection that allows and encourages us to be a more loving and
considerate couple and, as a result, more loving and considerate
parents. We learned so much about each other and continue to use
those skills everyday since we got back. During the weekend we felt
so supported by the team and other couples around us, it was a wonderful
environment for growth and sharing. After we arrived home I felt
a loss for a few days because I missed being there! It was the best
experience of our married lives and one we will always cherish.
We are reminded of it every day as we continue to share our feelings
and grow in love. Everyone should make a weekend, you wont regret
it!
Patrick & Sara - New York,
NY- Added 4/27/06
We were both very reluctant going into our weekend
and we were even in a fight when we got there! We have only been
married for our short time, but we have so much going on in our
lives and we have been together for six years, we felt we needed
this weekend. We found out so much about ourselves and 'us', it
was really amazing! We couldn't believe we went from "he/she
needs to change", to "I love this person with all my heart
and actually I need to change some of my behaviors and understand
where he/she is coming from". We are both stubborn, so this
is truly a breakthrough. We dialogue frequently and discuss our
feelings daily. We find our old ways to be melting away. We weren't
religious at all, and now want to pray together.
Gene & Tricia Chilton -
Burnsville, MN - Added 4/13/06
We thought we had a great marriage but we went to
the weekend to appease Tricia's sister. We went with an open mind,
but with all the skepticism in the world. Halfway through the second
day we felt the power of the holy spirit in full force, and even
now can't believe how much it's changed our lives. It was absolutely
the most amazing thing we have been through. We started this off
with us "thinking we had a great marriage" and that's
all it was, a thought. We owe our marriage and our new lives to
WWME, our love is so much deeper than anything we could have imagined.
God Bless.
Matt & Michelle Wolfersberger
- Atlanta, GA - Added 3/21/06
Our weekend ended yesterday and what an emotional
ride. After only two and a half years of marriage we knew we needed
some help. The weekend was my husband's idea and I was very resistant.
We were living a good life, but as married singles. We had
no idea just how far we had drifted apart until we started dialoging.
My walls came down and I could see how much my unwillingness to
share my feelings had hurt our marriage. By Sunday, we were both
emotionally drained but we left feeling like the weight of the world
had been lifted from our shoulders. We see each other in a completely
different light now, and we look forward to our lives together.
We can't wait to utilize the tools we learned and meet up with our
WEDS group. Thanks to Father Francois - we thought you were just
wonderful and you opened our eyes to the life of a priest. Thanks
to the teams too - your stories and courage were inspiring. This
is a journey for all married couples, whether you think you need
it or not.
Andrew & Jeanne Lydon -
Abington, PA - Added 3/21/06
I always thought that we had a pretty good marriage
and were very much in love. We did, however, have our 'up' times
and 'down' times as most marriages do. We were having a 'down' time
last year in a disagreement about one of our children (we have 7
children and don't always agree). We were going through a period
where we just couldn't communicate. I couldn't even tell you what
the issue was because, as usual, it is now long forgotten.
I was searching websites, very late one night, and
came across marriage encounter. We are Catholic and 50 years old
and knew several couples who had gone on these weekends many years
ago. I e-mailed a reservation right then and there. By the time
I received a phone call from a representative of the group, I had
asked my husband if he would consider it, and he agreed reluctantly.
My 1st question on the phone was "Are we too old for this?".
The answer I got was "Of course not, all ages attend, however,
after this weekend you are going to wish you did it sooner in your
marriage".
Well, we made our weekend 5 months ago. It truly is the single
best thing we have ever done for ourselves. We learned to communicate
through dialogue and I believe we will continue for the rest of
our lives. We have joined a group and meet monthly and share our
feelings. No matter what, we don't miss these meetings. They are
our support group and we all keep each other going. I know now that
we are a normal couple with normal problems just like our new friends.
We have grown so much closer to God as well as each other.
Do I ever wish that I had done it sooner? I was never one to
look back in life. I just look forward. All I can say is
that I am so glad that we came in contact with Marriage Encounter.
When one of us is gone someday, I expect to have an entire box of
books of letters written by my 'true love'. As for now I look forward
to our special time, set aside each day for 'us'. Thank you to 'Marriage
Encounter'. You have changed my life.
Jill & Steven Gautherat
- Hartland, MI - Added 3/7/06
Well it is Monday, the day after our Encounter Weekend.
WOW! What a weekend! My husband thought, "this isnt for me,
I am not an emotional guy..." but what a turnaround after 36
hours! The walls came down that we didn't realize we there, and
we have finnaly gotten to know each other after 6 years of marriage.
The weekend was worth the time well spent. We will tell the world
about our special Encounter!
Ryan & Amanda Maier -
Added 2/21/06
My wife and I just had our encounter this weekend.
It was wonderful! We found out so much about each other we never
would have found out in a million years of trying. It was a way
for us to finally break down the wall between us and really see
each other for who we really are. My wife said she always though
she had it figured out and as the weekend went along, she realized
she really didn't have it all figured out. I found a new way to
talk to her and really get to KNOW HER! It was an awesome experience.
I recommend it to every married couple out there.
Tom & Jamie Holloway - Newport
News, VA - Added 2/6/06
Today is Monday, a day after our encounter weekend.
I'm not sure how to explain my real feelings, but I know I'm a changed
man/husband/father. As I sat through the first session on Friday
night.... I wasn't sure this was going to be for me. As the hours
turned into days, I was surprised how much I was drawn into the
weekend.
This is the best thing I've ever done to bring my
relationship closer with my wife. I feel as if I was struck by lightening
directly in the heart. I never realized how much our relationship
was in a down spiral. After 24 years of marriage, I thought this
was the "NORM" for old married couples. Well, I'm here
to tell you that the Marriage Encounter will definitely change that
thought for you!
When Jamie and I left on Sunday afternoon, we both
said it was like having a second honeymoon. I still have butterflies
in my stomach and feeling like a teenage in love for the first time.
I have many friends to thank for directing me to the encounter weekend
and I am indebted to them for life. I now know God has big plans
for Jamie and me, and I can't wait to fulfill them all! Thank you
Marriage Encounter for a new lease on life with my wife.
Nicky & Vicki Parriad -
New Orleans, LA - Added 1/7/06
We were encountered in July of 2004. It was a gift
from my best friend and her husband. This is Nicky's second marriage.
We were a happy, stable couple with all of the ups and downs that
includes. After the weekend, we discovered that we were more in
love than we had ever been. We learned that by sharing our words,
we could enrich our life. We have since begun work on getting his
1st marriage annulled so that we can have our marriage blessed.
It was never that important before -- now it is. Our life has been
so enriched through the community. We are from New Orleans and this
community has been "life" saving. We have felt so much
love and spirituality during these trying times. We can't imagine
our life without Marriage Encounter.
John & Becky MacDonald -
Bozeman, MT - Added 11/17/05
Our weekend was so much more than we thought it
would be! It was just amazing that the simple exercises we did could
so profoundly change our relationship. We loved how the entire weekend
was so positive, and that our relationship was so honored. We felt
so nurtured and supported and yes, loved. We highly recommend a
Marriage Encounter weekend for every married couple!.
David & Jackie Scott - Edmonton,
AB - Added 10/24/05
Well, it's Monday and we just finished our Marriage
Encounter Weekend in Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. Let me tell you
it was the most exciting and emotional weekend we have experienced
in our 13 years of marriage. We are all taught how to balance a
cheque book from our parents, or how to fix things around the house,
but no one ever teaches us how to talk and listen to our spouses.
This weekend I finally learned how to communicate with my wife for
the first time in 13 years and what a relief. I cannot thank you
enough for this program and the opportunity that you presented to
us this weekend THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU.
Steve & Donna Wicelinski
- Bayside, NY- Added 10/24/05
Recently, we encountered a day of reckoning in our
marriage. We had been very happily married for 25 years, and yet
something had been changing in our lives. I searched the internet
only to find that our local Marriage Encounter weekend was cancelled.
My heart was broken, but I went on to find a Marriage Encounter
weekend in Milford, MA. We both felt our marriage was worth the
trip. I made some phone calls, and Steve & I decided that the
three hour trip would be worth all the years we had invested in
our family and in our lives. Call it divine intervention, call it
what you like, but there must have been a reason we found our way.
We met wonderful presenters, and a wonderful priest who helped us
put US back into perspective. We are truly blessed and grateful
for this weekend that has helped us learn to communicate again the
way we always did, and will continue to do for the rest of our lives.
God bless all of you who helped us reach this special place in our
lives.
Kevin & Claire Murray -
Carmel, NY- Added 10/3/05
Our weekend changed our lives and view of what a
marriage should be. It unleashed the incredible potential that lay
dormant in our marriage. We now see why God has brought us together
and continues to bless us daily. He wants our marriage to be a beacon
of His love for mankind. Our communication has gotten deeper and
more loving. Our intimacy has skyrocketted by leaps and bounds.
But the real treat is now we see our marriage as an instrument of
God's love and really want to live our marriage as part of His plan.
We are giddy with anticipation to see what heights He will take
us. He can take your marriage beyond the bounds of your imagination
if you just let Him take the wheel.
Dave & Rosie Goss - Lancaster,
PA- Added 9/19/05
It has been four years since we attended our original
weekend. That Marriage Encounter weekend changed our lives and our
relationship with each other. Our faith in God has never been stronger.
Many times God blesses us in ways we never anticipated. Marriage
Encounter was truly a blessing in disguise. It has become our personal
ministry. Our Marriage Encounter community is comprised of many
couples who have become our closest friends. In June 2005, we celebrated
32 years of marriage and our relationship with each other continues
to grow. Many thanks to all the couples and priests who are part
of this ministry. God is great in all of you!
Mike & Stacy Burris- Troy,
MO - Added 7/31/05
What a great weekend. It has been almost two weeks
since we have been to our weekend and we are still dialoguing and
it has been a wonderful experience. We recommend it to everyone.
You always think your marriage is perfect, or you don't need to
learn how to communicate with each other because you already know
how, but there is always room for improvement and lessons to learn.
What a blessing to bring something like this to your marriage. Thank
you for everything you did for us.
Vin & Sharon Gajewski -
Cheshire, CT - Added 7/18/05
We have been married for 39 years and, yes, we have
had our share of ups and downs. We decided to try a marriage encounter
weekend, and oh boy are we glad we did! We took our bland marriage
and made it sparkle. We are in love all over again. We have a new
lift to our step and can't wait to spend time with each other. We
have committed to keep each other first and foremost. We can't say
enough about how this weekend - it put romance, a renewed spirit
and an enhanced friendship in our marriage. No matter how long or
short you are married this is something that every married couple
will get something out of.
Travis & Denise Wiese -
McCook, NE - Added 3/2/05
My husband and I had our weekend recently. We've
been married for 5 years. and at the time I thought we had a good
marriage, I never dreamed that we would have a great marriage until
after our weekend. We fell in love all over again and learned a
new way of being intimate. We are so grateful and feel truly blessed
to be a part of WWME.
Stein & Gloria Mambiya -
Lilongwe, Malawi - Added 2/25/05
We had our weekend in December, 2001. It was
a very important moment in our marriage. We were married for
8 years, but this was our turning point. You know even after
the road constrution, there comes a time when you need to re-fill
the potholes. So the same with our marriage. We had
a lot of obstacles before we were encounterd. After our original
weekend, it was a different story. We are now a happy family
with two lovely boys, born on 20 september 1993 and 1998 (what's
God secret?). We are a good example in our community as well
as at our parish, Don Bosco. We are now the area leadership couple
until 2006. Thanks to the couple who invited us to the M.E. family.
Steve & Tonya Behnke - Eugene,
Oregon - Added 1/16/05
Our Marriage Encounter experience changed our lives.
It made us realize how much we loved each other, and that our marriage
was worth making work. We fell in love all over again during our
weekend. However, we stopped dialoging for a number of years and
found our communication was going down the drain. We made so many
excuses not to dialogue (like the kids, we were tired, we wanted
to watch a tv show, etc.) Recently we decided to start dialoging
again as a new years resolution and it's been soooo nice to really
communicate with each other again. Thanks ME for making our marriage
so much better!
Mrs. Raymonde Pirard - Added 11/12/04
My husband was a "Catholic" who never
went to church, and was anticlerical. I made remade my dedication
to the Lord Jesus in 1972, and I went back to church. My husband
created all kinds of problems.
I had a lot of people praying for us when he decided
to go to a Worldwide Marriage Encounter Weekend around 1980 as a
birthday present to each other (we were born in the same month).
On the last day, we had our last questions to answer. I cried a
lot, then my husband came in the room and he was in tears, but not
for the same reason. As he answered his questions, suddently he
knew that Jesus was alive, that Jesus loved him. From that day on
my husband never missed Sunday mass, and we prayed for our married
children.
In 1994, we had to move closer to one of our son.
We choose the younger one because the area was more rural. My husband
had Alzheimer and finally he had to go to a Nursing home; he died
4 years later. I visited him often, making him feel loved. Without
WWME, I would not have found that love was "til death...".
Teri & Bill Banks - Hamilton Square, NJ
- Added 10/6/04
"We made our weekend in September, 2004. Those were
the most amazing days of our married life! I knew our marriage was
strong, but I never really knew just how strong it was. The words
spoken there felt as if they were directly being spoken to us. Each
couple that spoke seemed to have more and more in common with us.
It was very powerful to be surrounded by couples wanting
to work on their marriage.
We prayed with the priest attending our weekend for
a miracle to come home with us, to remain in our lives and hearts
and our marriage. Early in our marriage we tried for two years
to have our first child, who is now 18 months old. We had to go
a medical route to even conceive, with no reason for us not being
able to conceive prior to that. After having her, we said if it
was meant to be, it would happen in God's time. Watch what we pray
for... we got pregnant and are having a Marriage Encounter Baby!
God Bless you Marriage Encounter."
Enrique & Kattia Carrillo - Costa Rica - Added
5/28/04
"We had our weekend on October 31st in San José,
Costa Rica. Our marriage has turned into one happy honeymoon since
we had our weekend. We are listening to each other with love and
we are always looking forward to our 20 minutes of sharing and loving
every day. Finally, we let go and let God.
Our kids see the difference even though they are only 7
& 4 years old. They seem happier and laugh more often. We have
been married for 10 years and Marriage Encounter helped us not only
with our marriage, but gave us the opportunity to be closer to God."
Wendell & Pohaikealoha Au - Hawaii -
Added 4/27/04
"We just returned from our weekend. Our time
proved to be a work worth all the effort...This
weekend, we learned valuable skills that taught us how to communicate
even in difficult situations. I learned about feelings my spouse
had that he had never shared with me before, and I felt more compassionate
and understanding. Today we feel confident that our communication
will soar to new heights and that our love can be strong again."
Angelica & Robert Di Niro - Miami, FL -
Added 4/8/04
"My husband and I had our weekend about two
years ago and I must say that it was the best decision we had ever
made. We learned so much about each other, and we learned about
the different tools we needed in order to better communicate with
each other. We are also attending the circle meeting each month
and we continue learning. We have now been married for 4 years,
we have a 5 month old baby boy and we are more in love than we have
ever been. I would recommend the weekend to everyone from the bottom
of my heart, it really works!!!!"
Eric & Andrea - Grand Rapids, MI -
Added 3/23/04
"My husband and I went to our first Marriage
Encounter weekend in Lansing, Michigan March 19th through the 21st.
We knew people that went but had never been. We really enjoyed it.
It was nice to get away from the distractions and the kids and just
have time for each other on the weekend. My husband and I renewed
our love for one another and came back so fulfilled and so in love
with each other after almost 10 yrs. of marriage. We vowed on the
way home to dialogue at night before bed and change the way we used
to do things as a couple and not go back to those ways. We want
to be involved in the Marriage Encounter community and have contacted
our friends in Grand Rapids, Michigan where we live, who are in
it and leaders for us to get involved."
Kevin & Joan Ankrom - Boise, ID -
Added 9/18/00
"Kevin and I recently attended a Marriage
Encounter Weekend and I must say first of all that I am glad that
I listened to God calling me to fill out the form to attend the
weekend. After 21 years of marriage, Marriage Encounter has been
another blessing in our life together. I believe this ministry is
a valuable resource for married couples. The information and knowledge
that Marriage Encounter provides is another tool that God leaves
laying in our paths on our daily faith walks in life. Being aware
and taking the time to reach for that tool is another wonderful
opportunity and gift from the love of God. I encourage all couples
to reach out hand in hand, together, for the gift that God has left
for you."
Mark & Anna Gloeckner - Las Vegas, NV -
Added 9/18/00
"Mark and I had our Encounter Weekend August
19, 2000. I prayed at the beginning of our summer for Jesus to rescue
our marriage and to help us to have a better Christian marriage.
Then a couple came to our parish and described the Marriage Encounter
Weekend. I knew it was the answer. The weekend was WONDERFUL. I
feel closer to my husband now than I ever have. I am thankful that
Jesus heard my prayer."
Philip & Rosemary Brodowski - Peachtree
City, GA - Added 7/31/00
"We completed our Marriage Encounter weekend
on June 25, 2000. That weekend has been the most powerful, emotional
experience we have ever had in our 30 years of marriage. Like many
couples, we drifted apart over the years and somehow got to the
point where we simply shared the same house, but not each other.
We knew we needed a catalyst to help us reenergize our marriage,
but never expected the tremendous blast we actually experienced.
We learned more about each other than we ever knew before and although
it seems hard to imagine it could happen so quickly, we not only
rekindled the real love for one another we once had, but actually
developed a much deeper love than we have ever experienced before.
We are now communicating with one another about everything and perhaps
more importantly, we're listening with our hearts. We have vowed
that we will continue to use the tools Marriage Encounter gave us
every day of our lives. We truly believe Marriage Encounter was
agift from God and we will cherish the experience all the days of
our lives. THANK YOU Marriage Encounter!!"
Anonymous - Added 7/31/00
"My husband and I have only been married
for three years, and we can say we do have a happy marriage. We
attended wwme because we want to maintain a stable and loving relationship.
Our generation seems to value marriage less, and give up more. We
see our encounter as great "maintenance". Thanks to wwme encounter
we realize and remember why we are married, and helps us to stay
focused. We hope that in 50 years we will still be dialoging and
sharing our love daily!!!!"
Minda & Rolly Rabara, Mindanao, Philippines -
Added 5/17/00
"The Marriage Encounter weekend we attended at Cagayan
de Oro City, Mindanao, Philippines in February 2000 gave our lives
a "spiritual lift" and made our relationship better. Our love has
rekindled and energized and our feeling was like we were both in
love at first sight. Thank so much to ME."
Ed & Tracy Vicknair - Added 3/27/00
"It is Sunday night we are shutting down for the weekend.
What an exhausting yet invigorating weekend. My wife and I enjoyed
our ride home so much. I now know how she feels about so many things.
Today is the end of our weekend but the beginning of the rest of
our marriage. We are so pleased we went this weekend. We were skeptical
at first but the walls came crashing down and the emotions flowed.
I'm not sure I will have enough energy to go in to the office tomorrow.
The weekend was that good!"
Jeff & Lee Ann Deitz - Murphysboro, IL - Added
3/27/00
"Our ME weekend has been the most wonderful anniversary
gift we could have ever given each other. Our busy schedules with
work, children and outside activities were taking a large toll on
our marriage. It seemed we were letting our marriage happen- and
not making an effort to be involved in it ourselves. Since the ME
weekend, we feel more in control of our family. We are making a
more concentrated effort to maintain a much higher level of communication
than ever before. Before the weekend, our communication level hovered
at the Neanderthal level. We were living in the Land of the Lost.
Now our love is rekindled, rejuvenated and energized. We are communicating
on a much higher level and we actually like to listen to one another.
At times we feel almost giddy with excitement for our new found
friend- our note book! We look forward everyday to our evening dialogue,
and the new discoveries we will make about each other."
Randy & Patti - Pittsburgh, PA - Added 3/27/00
"We made our weekend almost 5 years ago, The greatest
gift 2 people could ever give each other. Randy never completed
his sacraments but on the weekend he made his first reconciliation
and that following Easter He completed his sacraments. Tell me the
Lord moves in mysterious ways. I can't thank Him enough. Our lives
have never been the same. Our family grew with the addition of our
ever faithful community and our new found Love, Randy, never wanted
to go on the weekend, But now is the first to volunteer to give
pulpit talks or do some sort of recruitment effort. Thank you Marriage
Encounter for making my good marriage GREAT!!"
Vincent & Kristin Buonaccorsi - San Diego, CA -
Added 2/28/00
"The first thing I realized was that I needed to tell
Kristin that I love her, more often. I was shocked to find out how
lonely she can feel, because I have always felt so close to her.
Through ME our love has flowed right through her and we are now
rays of sun, brilliant and piercing. We have always treasured
our nation of two. We could not believe as the overwhelming presence
of God flooded over us when our supporting couples came in singing
that song. We were part of a community for the very first time.
It was as if God reached out his hand and carried us away from all
our doubts and fears. ME is love at first sight. We have never experienced
anything so beautiful. As with our love, it is everything we never
knew we always wanted."
Anthony & Jennifer - Allentown, PA -
Added 2/28/00
"Anthony and I made our 1st weekend February 11-13 at
St. Francis Retreat Center in Allentown, PA. It was such an incredible
weekend that I just need to write and tell all of you about it.
After 5 years of marriage, the weekend brought us back in sink with
each others feelings, thoughts, hopes, and dreams. Yes, Anthony
was skeptical at first. Most men are, but he could not believe how
he was able to be more open with his feelings after that weekend.
We left that weekend not wanting to go home to the every day stressors
of life. It was incredible. It is difficult to describe what the
weekend is all about but we can definately tell you that it is so
worth it. You come away with such a sense of love, sharing and caring
like you never have before. We were inspired by all of the couples
and the priest (Father Wally) that presented the weekend. Bob and
Michelle Dooley were one couple that really inspired us the most.
They had the same personality traits that Anthony and I have, which
made it easier to related to the discussions that were given. We
encourage all married couples in today's hectic world to at least
try it once. You need to experience it for yourselves to know what
we are talking about. Good luck to all of you in your Marriage.
God love you."
Antonio & Merche - Spain - Added 2/28/00
"We are Antonio and Merche, a Spanish couple that live
in Spain (Europe). We lived our Weekend ten years ago. Since that
moment we brought the lifestyle of ME in our lives and we live happier.
Life is not very easy for us, but we live it together. The good
moments are better and bad moments are not as worse. Please, excuse
our bad English. Now we try to help another couples, inviting them
to live the ME-Weekend. If you read this and have the opportunity
to live a ME Weekend, Don't miss it! Thank you very much to ME."
Tammy & Fred Williams - Minneapolis, MN - Added
2/28/00
"Words seem so inadequate to describe how the Marriage
Encounter weekend affected me. The weekend was affirming, spiritual,
uplifting, rewarding, emotional, fun, enlightening and much more.
Never in my wildest dreams did I expect to get so much out of it.
My husband and I have known each other for over 12 years but it
is amazing to find out that there is still so much more to learn
and discover about each other through dialogue. The weekend has
brought about a renewal of our commitment to each other and to building
a stronger relationship within the sacrament of our marriage. It
has also left me with a desire to promote and encourage other couples
to become encountered. It is the greatest gift you can give to each
other - a weekend of renewal and rediscovery!!"
Jimmy & Jill Doherty - Queens, NY - Added 2/28/00
"We made our weekend in February 1999, 16 months into
a marriage that got off to a very rocky start. God had other plans
for us though, and through a brief notice in the church bulletin,
we committed to the weekend. Not knowing what to expect, but hoping
for a miracle, we were inspired by the love, honesty and openess
of the Bishop and the hosting couples. Then we were blessed with
the awesome tool that ME teaches, and understood that God had granted
us that miracle. We had no idea that Marriage Encounter was a community,
and thought the weekend would be a "one time deal." Staying connected
by attending meetings and functions that ME sponsors, we are utilizing
that miracle. We left that Valentine's weekend with the conviction
that it IS God's will for us to be together, and to give Him glory
through this blessed sacrament."
Chris & Beth Deibel - Columbus, OH - Added 2/28/00
"Beth and I made our Marriage Encounter weekend two
months after we had gone through RCIA together. Beth was joining
the Catholic Church and I was yearning for a deeper understand of
my Catholic faith. The experience of renewing and regaining our
spiritual life brought us to a new level of desire. We wanted to
enhance, deepen and expand our spiritual life as a couple. After
prayerful discernment, God sent us on a Marriage Encounter weekend
in July of 1997. What we experienced was a true union with Christ
as a couple. What an eye opener for us! We realized that our Vocation
of Marriage within the Catholic Church is to shine so bright that
we stand out as an example of God's Desire for Marriage. We came
off our weekend on fire to be God's instruments to help change the
world one relationship at a time. We are deeply involved in Marriage
Encounter and it has changed our lives forever! If you are not sure
you want to make a Marriage Encounter weekend... consider this...
it's not that you need a weekend... it is that you deserve it!!!"
Nicole Son - Daughter of Encountered Couple - Added
1/8/00
"This is a little different from the testimony that
you asked for, but when I saw this page, I felt I had to write.
My parents, Wes and Vicki Fach, made their weekend in 1981 in New
Jersey, were a team couple for many years, and were execs in San
Diego, CA. I thank God every day that my parents were encountered
- their relationship has been a shining exampletto me and my siblings
of what a marriage should be. They have been dialoguing daily for
well over 10 years, and this communiciation has sustained them through
many difficult times. A Marriage Encoutner Weekend was the greatest
gift my parents ever gave their children. Thanks ME!"
Michael & Tracy Dodd - Cedar Rapids, IA - Added
1/8/00
"[We] have been married for 10 years, and have three
children. We attended the ME this weekend, just 6 hours ago we were
renewing our wedding vows with around 20 other couples. The
ME Weekend was just what we needed for our marriage. In the last
10 years we've been through 10 major operations, amputation and
a total knee replacement. All this had put our marriage to
a test, and there were still stresses trying to tear us apart. The
ME weekend helped us to open up to each other and therough dialoguing
were able to put many of the hurts and doubts behind us for good!
We now have the tools to take on the next 60 years!"
Kris & Vickie Kilmer - Canyon Lake, TX -
Added 11/1/99
"We attended our 1st Marriage Encounter Weekend on
26 Sept. 1999. After 31 years of marriage, three children
and two grandchildren, we had become the perfect example of "married
singles", each of us going our own way, doing our own thing, having
our separate friends and leading our lives more as occassional roommates,
than husband and wife. Our marriage was in immanent danger of being
on the rocks. Through Marriage Encounter we rediscovered how much
we really mean to each other. We now look forward to our dialogue
time as a rekindling of our love, honesty and trust towards one
another. After our Encounter Weekend we became closer, more open
and more intimate than we have been in the last 25 years. We thank
God for Marriage Encounter, as it has truly saved this marriage."
Sean & Stacey Romo - Metaire, LA - Added
11/1/99
"This weekend was truly GREAT for us. This is the Monday
after, and I can see the difference in how I look at my husband.
I am excited when he called today, and when he got home I immediately
got off of the phone to greet him. I have a new found love and I
am so excited about our new future together."
George & Colleen Wigh - Grafton, WI -
Added 11/1/99
"George and I have been married 13 years. I was looking
forward to the weekend more than George was. As the weekend went
on, I liked the way George opened up with his feelings more. We
were reminded about how much our marriage really is a sacrament.
I especially liked the end when we renewed our vows. We drove
home that night feeling much closer to each other."
John & Cindy Stadler - Erie, PA - Added
11/1/99
"The ME Weekend was unbelievable, and we cannot believe
that ME has been around for so long. As others, we were considering
the option of separation, when I noticed an ad in the local paper.
The weekend was nothing like we expected, but much more than we
could have imagined. We have decided to stay together and to continue
to dialogue. John has even gone to church for the first time in
years, and is the catalyst in a prayer before we retire each night.
I thank the Lord for small miracles. Even our children have noticed
the difference, and agree that the weekend was a miracle. God bless
and keep all of those who are selfless enough to donatetheir weekends
for others like us. We keep you in our daily prayers."
Wayne & Marcia Kessler - Las Vegas, NV
"We made our weekend in April of 1975 and to say
the least it has changed our lives. Our relationship was definately
a two ships passing in the night relationship. We worked two different
shifts and had three children ages 3, 4 & 7. Our conversation
dealt entirely with who needed the car when and where we needed
to be at any given time. Our weekend gave us the opportunity to
romance each other once again. We learned to look at each other
the way we did when we were dating. We look forward to the time
we spend on our communication enrichment every day, even today after
24 years since our weekend. Our children are grown and have blessed
us with 6 grandchildren. All of them look forward to being with
us and experiencing our closeness that pours out on to them."
Tom & Judy Ahrens - Cincinnati, OH
"Tom and I first were encountered in October 1994 and
again in April 1998. Our weekends have brought us closer to each
other and has brought God into our marriage in a powerful way. We
celebrated our 34th anniversary this month and we are grateful for
our renewed relationship. Thank God for Marriage Encounter!"
Dennis & Patti Kelleher - Syracuse, NY
"My husband and I made our original weekend in March
of 1992 in Massachusetts. We had been married for 10 years at the
time with 3 young boys. The best thing we've done for ourselves
was to attend this M.E. Weekend! It really freed us up to
finally talk to each other again and not at each other. This weekend
was emotionally freeing for both of us; we shared a part of ourselves
that we didn't know existed. And the best thing was knowing that
our feelings weren't being judged, just finally accepted!
Since our original weekend, we've since moved to Illinois
and now reside in New York. Each time we immediately sought out
the closest M.E. [community] and were immediately welcomed with
open arms. The gift of dialogue has kept us going through all of
this, and to this day we continue to be active within our community.
We have made some life-long friendships and will be forever
grateful for the gift of the weekend."
Jack & Jennie Nicholson - Grand Rapids, MI
"My husband and I just encountered June 25, 1999. We
are amazed at how close it brought us! We left the weekend
feeling like we are dating again. All the excitement and joy
had come back to our marriage. We have only been married 3
years, and we are so glad we didn't wait longer before our encounter.
Thank you Marriage Encounter for making us one of the happiest couples
on earth!"
Joe & Betty LeBlanc - Amherst, VA
"We will be celebrating our 38th anniversary in July
1999. Our marriage was close to crumbling almost 18 years ago when
we were invited to attend an ME weekend. Even after 20 years being
married, we learned so much more about each other that wonderful
weekend in Houston, Texas. The strength we gained has carried both
of us through many ups and downs."
Al & Mary Alvarado
"My husband and I attended our first Marriage Encounter
Weekend in June 1980. We learned to trust each other on that weekend.
I learned to listen more since I am usually the talker and my husband
learned to communicate in a very non-threatening way. We believe
we are still married today thanks to Marriage Encounter."
"In May of 1999 we experienced an anniversary weekend,
we took our youngest daughter and son-in-law on the same weekend.
It was wonderful to see them grow and glow all weekend, but our
biggest blessing was our own renewed rejuvinated LOVE! We experiences
such closeness and our love continues to grow every day. We thank
God for the tools we learned on the weekend. Life is so much more
enjoyable! We encourage everyone to go for an anniversary weekend
soon!"
Ray & Debra Delgadillo - Chandler, AZ
"This was the best thing my husband and I did for ourselves
in the last 21 years of marriage. Not only did I find my spiritual
faith I also found the most important man in my life, my husband
Ray. I knew I loved him, but now there is more love than I ever
imagined. We found our church, our marriage, our church lights will
always stay on! GO MARRIAGE ENCOUNTER!"
Paul & Jackie Hodgins
"We rekindled the love in our relationship
and opened up lines of communication we never knew existed. We have
a renewed commitment to our marriage."
Ian & Kim - Richmond, KY
"Marriage Encounter has made us closer than
we have ever been before. We thank God everyday for what WWME has
done for us."
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